So, you’ve got a crush on someone and you want to ask her out on a date or at least get to know her better. But how do you start the conversation off? How do you make sure it doesn’t sound like you’re being pushy or too eager? Well, if that sounds like an issue for you then I’m here to help! In this post I’ll show exactly how to start a conversation with a girl on Facebook for the first time so that it goes smoothly and naturally without sounding awkward or desperate at all.

How to Start a Conversation With a Girl on Facebook for the First Time

• Be yourself. Don’t try too hard to be funny, or say things that don’t sound like something you would say in person. Just talk about the things going on in your life and let her get to know who you really are as an individual!
• Don’t ask too many personal questions too quickly. Some people like talking about themselves all day long, but if someone doesn’t feel comfortable sharing personal details with someone they just met online (or even offline), then don’t push them into doing so! Let them lead in terms of getting closer together emotionally/physically by asking open-ended questions instead of yes/no questions; this will allow both parties involved more time within which they can learn more about each other before making any decisions regarding whether or not they’d like one another enough as friends…or lovers 🙂

The best way to start a conversation with a girl on Facebook for the first time is to ask her a question about herself.

The best way to start a conversation with a girl on Facebook for the first time is to ask her a question about herself.

It’s important to remember that you should ask questions that are open-ended, so that she has room to respond in her own words and not just say “yes” or “no.” You want her to feel comfortable talking about herself, so it’s best not to make it sound like an interrogation! Just take some time before you message your crush, think about what she likes and then come up with something relevant based on those interests.

Don’t try too hard to be funny or overly confident.

Don’t try too hard to be funny or overly confident. Don’t try to be someone you’re not, and don’t act like an arrogant jerk. This is an easy trap for many guys who are new at talking with girls online (or anywhere), but it’s important that you avoid it at all costs.

Don’t say anything that sounds like bragging or nonsense bragging–“I’m the best,” “I’m really good looking,” etc.–it will just make her think less of you and probably never want to talk again!

Start off by saying something like “Hey, how’s it going?” or “How was your weekend?”

When you’re starting a conversation with a girl online, it’s important to be casual, friendly and polite. Don’t ask too many questions at once. Instead of asking “How are you?” followed by “What did you do this weekend?” try asking one specific question about her day/weekend before moving on to another topic.

The best way to start off is by being specific about what happened in your own life (either earlier today or yesterday) so that she knows that this isn’t just some random message from some guy who wants nothing more than sex from her. You want her interested in talking with YOU specifically because YOU are interesting!

Remember: don’t be pushy or try too hard to force conversation out of her–it’ll come naturally if both parties are interested in each other!

Give her some space to respond, but if she doesn’t then say something else.

Once you’ve said your piece, give her some time to respond. If she doesn’t respond within 15 minutes or so (and especially if she hasn’t responded at all), then send another message saying something else.

Remember: Don’t be pushy! Just because you asked a question doesn’t mean that she has to answer it. If she does choose to reply in detail, that’s great–but don’t keep asking questions if she isn’t responding at all or seems uncomfortable answering yours first.

It can also help if you ask questions that are more personal than others–for example: “What made you decide on [major]?” versus “How do I get into [major]?” The latter may be too specific for someone who only wants friendly small talk; whereas the former gives them room for more personal disclosure without feeling pressured into talking about themselves too much right away (which can lead people feeling awkward).

Don’t get frustrated if she doesn’t respond right away; focus on having fun and being yourself.

• Be patient, and wait for her to respond. Don’t be pushy or get frustrated if she doesn’t respond right away.
• Don’t try too hard to impress her with your witty banter; just be yourself!
• Remember that being funny or playful is a good way to start a conversation, but don’t overdo it by trying too hard.

If you’re really interested in her, don’t wait too long before starting another conversation with her again later on!

If you’re really interested in her, don’t wait too long before starting another conversation with her again later on!

If you don’t find the right time or place to start a conversation with her, she might get away from you. You want to make sure that doesn’t happen!

Don’t ask personal questions too quickly. If she gives an answer that doesn’t make sense and doesn’t seem like something she would normally say (for example: “I’m working at McDonalds” when she clearly isn’t), then ask more questions until things start sounding right again.

You can build up attraction by asking good questions and showing genuine interest in them without being pushy or asking personal questions too quickly.

There are lots of ways you can build up attraction by asking good questions and showing genuine interest in them without being pushy or asking personal questions too quickly.

If you’re not sure what to say, start with a question about her profile picture or status update. For example, if she has posted a photo of her dog on Facebook and you like dogs too, then ask her about their breed and age. If she has just updated her relationship status with something like “In A Relationship” then ask what made her decide to change it from single? If she hasn’t updated anything recently then simply comment on something they did post (for example: “I love this photo!”). You could also try commenting on something else entirely unrelated – maybe even something funny!

I hope you found this article helpful! I know it can be difficult to start a conversation with someone on Facebook, but once you get past that initial hurdle, it’s easy to keep going and turn it into something fun. Remember: don’t try too hard, just be yourself and have fun. If all else fails–and trust me, sometimes even the best of us fail–just remember that there are other ways to meet people online besides just chatting on social media sites like Facebook or Twitter (for example: using dating apps like Tinder). Good luck!